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“All means all” is easy to say. It fits on a poster. It sounds good in a mission statement. It belongs in a strategic plan, a welcome letter, a classroom doorway, and a graduation speech. The real question is whether it lives in our daily practice. During Pride Month, schools and communities have an opportunity to pause and ask a deeper question: When we say every child belongs, do we mean every child as they fully are? Not every child arrives at school feeling equally safe.

Stop Calling Grown Women “Kiddo” I am 55 years old. I’ve worked since I was 16. I spent 34 years in education, most of them in leadership roles. I’ve presented in rooms filled with thousands of people. I’ve earned a doctorate. I’ve been published. I’ve led districts, built programs, managed teams, and navigated crises. Across my entire career (from my twenties to this very day), men I have worked for and alongside have called me “kiddo.” Not once. Not occasionally. Consistent