There is a familiar phrase we use when someone does not seem to fit. We say they are a square peg in a round hole. It is meant to describe a mismatch. It is meant to explain discomfort. It is meant to name the tension between a person and a system that was not designed with them in mind. In K-12 education, we use softer language, of course. We talk about placement, programming, intervention, readiness, compliance, acceleration, remediation, enrichment, behavior plans, service
